Savoring beauty is feminine.
Femininity is soft and embraces a soft lifestyle. A feminine person is not hard, not tense, and not in a rush to get things done. Feminine people plan ahead. They savor the little things in life such as roses in their garden, creamy lattes in the morning, and French dinners with soft conversations. These are the things that make up their day-to-day life because they find comfort in them.
The lifestyle of femininity.
The Feminine person knows when it is time to gear up and work hard but they also know when it is time to just relax, receive, and take-in.
The world has been telling us that we should be go-getters all of the time; but why? Is it because we are super humans who can do anything and everything with our lives? Or is it because of a lack of self-awareness or even worse; a lack of self-respect?
If something feels like hard work, and it brings about an uncomfortable feeling, don’t do it! This may seem like an obvious statement, but sometimes people forget that there is more than one way to approach life and its various situations. You can ask for help in certain situations but sometimes doing nothing at all might actually be more beneficial than doing something less than ideal for your personal well-being and health.
Femininity trusts that what needs to happen will happen in due time.
Please remember femininity is receiving not doing. A feminine lifestyle isn’t about trying to control every situation and circumstance in life; femininity just let things flow as they may. A feminine person accepts reality as it comes and doesn’t pretend otherwise.
Femininity fills their minds with warm thoughts and their hearts are filled with soft yearnings, but they hold on to nothing tightly. A feminine person know that they cannot change the world around them by their self; they can only change their inner world through accepting reality for what it is.
If you can’t change something, it’s better to accept it. If something is meant to be, it will happen in due time. You’ll get a chance to make things right again. While living in your femininity you will have trust in life itself. A feminine person trust that what needs to happen will happen in due time. They are not stressed out by working themselves up over the unknown future; instead, the feminine uses their energy on making things better in the now by getting involved with what’s happening around them and doing whatever they can do best, on any subject, at any given moment.
This is how femininity lives.
Possessing a feminine lifestyle allows you to live life any way you want. You don’t have to be stressed out; you can be calm, you don’t have to be hard; you can be soft; not tight, but loose and free; not quick, but slow and easy; not rushing through things but savoring them all. This is femininity.
A feminine person does not stress about the things they can’t control, but rather focuses on the things that are within their own power. They do not worry about what other people think of them—they know who they are and what they want, so it doesn’t matter if everyone around decides they don’t like or approve of them or their choices.
A feminine person understands that there are some things in life that aren’t going to change no matter how hard we fight them. For example, we will all grow old, die one day, and leave this Earth behind; we will never be able to live on Mars because there’s not enough oxygen up there for us to breathe; and men will always be more likely than women to get distracted by boobs in their peripheral vision when walking down the street. Things that can not be changed do not establish space in a feminine person’s mind, life, or soul.
There are many ways to live life, choose one that makes you happy.
The soft life is about the experience not the achievement. So often in life we focus on the destination and forget that it’s really all about enjoying the journey. It doesn’t matter whether you’re walking up a mountain, scrapbooking family pictures, or taking a stroll through your local park—it’s all about being present and appreciating what’s around you at every moment in time.
Important fact.
There are many heterosexual men that possess more feminine energy than masculine energy making them prime candidates of being feminine and living a feminine lifestyle.
Are you living your best feminine life?
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Love your blog Staci. Have been a fan of your blog since you and your husband’s wedding story was in Essence Magazine! I have followed several beauty tips and recipes of yours over the years.
Hello Tanya, I am so pleased that you have followed me for so many years and that you still do after the slight change in my blog. I cannot thank you enough because it means everything to me!!